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It has been increasing in India especially because of the varieties of religious faiths and sects of the Hindu faith there. In India, religions each have their own rules relating to marriage, as rules exist for the conduct of marriage itself. When two people from different social groups marry, it is anAvnihttp://www.blackmagicstar.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-88650087077655721872011-07-02T20:04:02.151+05:302011-07-02T20:04:02.151+05:30Hi Arya Samaj. WTF?Hi Arya Samaj. WTF?AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450204914976492906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-89647156515230442682011-06-25T11:58:04.701+05:302011-06-25T11:58:04.701+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.Arya Samaj Mandirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15502351694296848461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-15069745664717485572008-12-19T02:49:00.000+05:302008-12-19T02:49:00.000+05:30@Nandini:I think its not too tough to find reasons...@Nandini:<BR/>I think its not too tough to find reasons for opposing the marriage.<BR/>Its going to take a while for society to learn to accept the "inter-caste" marriages. And you need enough people doing it in each generation for it to be accepted as "normal".<BR/>Ideally we should try to stop this whole "marriage" thing [obly I am trying to spread my view since the more on my side the better Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-26304997103889715082008-12-19T00:11:00.000+05:302008-12-19T00:11:00.000+05:30At the outset, I want to say I am a rambler - so ...At the outset, I want to say I am a rambler - so this will be a long! I came across this post when googling for reasons on why parents infact object to intercaste marriages. I am in the middle of an "intercaste situation" now! I am a tamil iyer considering marriage to a tamil pillai and there is a lot of ruckus going on with this match, although both of us speak the same language, celebrate the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-90961969310605280002008-11-05T00:25:00.000+05:302008-11-05T00:25:00.000+05:30I am a south indian - Tamil Brahmin Iyer married t...I am a south indian - Tamil Brahmin Iyer married to a Rajasthani. We knew each other for 4 years & have been married for 2.5years now. Going through a lot of problems because of cultural differences . Was googling to see if there are any 'solutions' to common marriage problems & found this blog. <BR/><BR/>After my experience - I think parents are absolutely right in opposing such Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-34731231389444610622008-08-14T08:38:00.000+05:302008-08-14T08:38:00.000+05:30In India,things change ever so slowly, but I would...In India,things change ever so slowly, but I would like to think that things have changed quite a lot in the last few decades. <BR/><BR/>When both boy and girl are educated and mature and financially independent, then such marriages are bound in increase.<BR/><BR/>One cannot stop this onwards march of progress towards better social integration of people.<BR/><BR/>It was an excellent post on a squarecut.atulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10259468372249503153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-45591698161395312102008-06-02T12:25:00.000+05:302008-06-02T12:25:00.000+05:30Well, yeah... there's always that :)Well, yeah... there's always that :)AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450204914976492906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-92103139340019197062008-06-02T11:48:00.000+05:302008-06-02T11:48:00.000+05:30isn't it easier to say "NO" to marriage and live h...isn't it easier to say "NO" to marriage and live happily ever after?Arjunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12608024685176859481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-90728506516820050382008-05-26T10:47:00.000+05:302008-05-26T10:47:00.000+05:30No comment ;)No comment ;)AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450204914976492906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-82730512105509515982008-05-21T10:25:00.000+05:302008-05-21T10:25:00.000+05:30Machan, this sounds like you're setting something ...Machan, this sounds like you're setting something up for the future :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-4353401007608647342008-05-21T01:28:00.000+05:302008-05-21T01:28:00.000+05:30@pnoasnidtiinvie: Ah well, you're welcome :)@Manpr...@pnoasnidtiinvie: Ah well, you're welcome :)<BR/><BR/>@Manpreet: I completely agree there will be issues as fundamental as food habits... and that marrying someone within your community will help ease the process of living together. But I don't think that alone should be the reason for branding a potential relationship/union as unworkable, infeasible and doomed to failure.AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450204914976492906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-48830491091340126162008-05-19T21:06:00.000+05:302008-05-19T21:06:00.000+05:30I'm getting on the bandwagon a bit too late, but, ...I'm getting on the bandwagon a bit too late, but, better late than never. Here's a perspective from someone who had an inter-caste love marriage, where both sets of parents and relatives agreed happily. In my case, both my husband and I, were post-graduates, financially stable, above 26 years of age at the time of marriage and had been taking independent decisions for a few years. Moreover, both Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-75877476383523889332008-05-19T18:24:00.000+05:302008-05-19T18:24:00.000+05:30@ AC: Jingbang ? Wow.. Even Wordsmith didnt tell m...@ AC: Jingbang ? Wow.. Even Wordsmith didnt tell me that ! Thanks for the new word.pnoasnidtiinviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09966093015695244654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-59690482165799522222008-05-19T00:21:00.000+05:302008-05-19T00:21:00.000+05:30Ah, the married perspective!@DD: Yes, one's upbrin...Ah, the married perspective!<BR/><BR/>@DD: Yes, one's upbringing (heavily dependent on ragional and caste influences) will differ from others which will lead to situations of potential conflict that need tolerance and understanding to be sorted out. As a very simplistic example, several of my female north Indian friends find several of my essentially Tam characteristics and lifestyle preferences AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450204914976492906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-14981912417800827252008-05-19T00:07:00.000+05:302008-05-19T00:07:00.000+05:30@Soundarya: You're right, I've noticed a good numb...@Soundarya: You're right, I've noticed a good number of such situations - orthodox grooming/love marriage and liberal parents/arranged marriage... can't think of any explanation!<BR/><BR/>@Nair: Very lawyerlike, wonderfully argued :) I think pnoasnidtiinvie's response conveys a lot of my thoughts perfectly, especially on the matter of using caste as an argument... and it's put a lot better than IAChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450204914976492906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9055046.post-86522318902640200682008-05-17T00:20:00.000+05:302008-05-17T00:20:00.000+05:30Your first couple of points about people having/la...<B>Your first couple of points about people having/lacking the "skill" to interact with the opposite sex and/or find/express love is spot on.</B><BR/><BR/>Totally agree.Srividya Jayaramanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00540041228603362942noreply@blogger.com